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'Yours,' Is A Romantic Drama Based On Civil War Letters
By Lyle L. Brown
May 2003

Last summer a new Civil War play premiered which was based on the love letters of 1861-1863 between Lt. Richard M. Goldwaite of the 3rd New York and 99th New York Volunteer Infantry Regiments and his wife Ellie.

"Yours," is an original romantic drama based on 72 of the 142 letters saved by Richard and Ellie. Husband and wife wrote passionately of the hurt of separation, the loss of a brother in the
war, letters going astray, and disillusionment with the war as the months of separation dragged by.

The play was first performed at the Habersham Community Theatre in Clarkesville, Ga. and directed by the play's writer, Richard D. Stafford, who was then teaching at Young Harris College. Its title was taken from the custom of the time in which Richard and Ellie ended their letters with the formal "yours," even though the content on some occasions led them to implore the other to "burn this letter!"

The "Union" drama played to sold-out "Confederate" audiences and won enthusiastic reviews.
The play surprised many who did not expect the same expressions of separation and loss in "Northern" letters as their "Southern" ancestors had written in letters lovingly passed
down to them.

From 1861 to 1863, the Goldwaites wrote back and forth between Richard's duty location (mostly in the Norfolk, Va., area) and their home near Albany, N.Y.

About 15 years ago, Martha Skipper, a granddaughter's daughter-in-law, found the letters, many still in the original envelopes, in the canvas bag that Goldwaite carried during the war.
She and friend Jane Taylor are developing a manuscript of the letters for publication.

The letters were adapted to the stage by Stafford now a visiting professor of public speaking at Georgia Perimeter College in Atlanta. He has written four books and two plays, but this was his first venture into Civil War drama.

He was introduced to the Goldwaites by a student at Young Harris who asked if he had time to look at an aunt's manuscript based on old letters. Stafford said he was taken by the feelings expressed in the letters. He excerpted individual lines to develop the romantic
two-act drama.

The play fits very comfortably in small playhouses, giving the audience a close rapport with the two characters separated in their own spotlights only a few feet apart on stage but achingly far apart during the war. There are only 12 non-original lines in the entire play, which were inserted where needed to provide smooth transitions in the plot.

The play begins with the character of Ellie reading her moving poem "The Parting" which she lovingly wrote for her husband on the occasion of his departure for duty. Act two begins with Richard and Ellie speaking passionately of their separation and longing for each other, only inches apart and almost touching hands, which heightens the effect of their actual separation.

Richard was older than the young Ellie and the two had been married but a few months before war separated them. He shared his loneliness and his growing disillusion with the war, in turns speaking of doing almost anything to leave the Union army and be with Ellie, then
remonstrating himself for such feelings, invoking duty and honor. Ellie wrote in a more passionate style typical of her youth and her longing for Richard.

Lt. Goldwaite served in the 3rd New York from April 1861 to March 20, 1862, and in the 99th New York Volunteer Infantry from March 1862 until June of 1863. He entered and ended his service as a lieutenant.

He had served as a 2nd lieutenant in the Mexican War.

Richard and Ellie eventually had seven children, although only four daughters survived to adulthood. Richard worked as a tobacconist in Albany the remainder of his life and died in 1889 at age 63. Elle died in 1910 at age 70.

This reviewer had the advantage of reading the couple's letters a year prior to seeing the play and believes the spirit of the letters came brilliantly alive on stage. Three voices offstage provided an occasional "letter" from a relative. The minimal sets, props and costumes evoked the feel of the soldier far away in camp and the young bride in her New York kitchen.

In addition to the full play of one hour and 45 minutes, a one-hour competition-length version of "Yours," was presented at the Georgia Theater Conference last October. It won First Runner Up. Kendall Mize won the Best Actress award as Ellie Goldwaite and the production won
Best Set Design.

An encore production of "Yours," will be given July 25 and 26 as a dinner theater in Habersham County, Georgia. Stafford hopes to bring the play to New York state.

For tickets or information on how to schedule the production, Stafford may be reached at 221 Featherwood Dr., Cornelia, GA 30531; (706) 499-3914; e-mail dickstafford@alltel.net

Lyle Brown is a long time student of the Civil War who is a member
of the Civil War Preservation Trust, the Pensacola
Civil War Round Table, and an attendee of the annual Civil War
Institute at Gettysburg College.

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